I am the daughter of an alcoholic father with an enabling mother. They've been married 45 years and the dysfunction was and is rediculously traumatic. I married what turned out to be an egocentic alcoholic who is now 3+ years sober. But one never recovers from ego, theres just no escape. So this is my journey of trying to break the horrific cycle and instead of "finding" my life, I will learn to create my life.